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Dear Raphael,

Time for English lesson. Let's learn a new word 'DEFAME'

Definition
defame
verb [T] FORMAL
to damage the reputation of a person or group by saying or writing bad things about them which are not true
taken from Cambridge Advanced Learner's Dictionary

Your daddy is suing for defamation of character which he claims that the remarks in this blog were highly defamatory.

Please look at the definition again in bold....
to damage the reputation of a person or group by saying or writing bad things about them which are not true

So may I ask which part is not true?

Let's put it in point form which he finds it defamatory:

The passages in their natual and ordinary meaning and were understood to mean that Mr Tay

- has coached and brainwashed his son and made his son call his mother to say hurtful words to her; that Mr Tay is devilish; and that Mr Tay has sub-normal intelligence by referring to him as an "idiot".
- is causing his son to be sarcastic to you[his mother] and to accuse you of depriving him of food; that Mr Tay is childish, has a flawed character and is despicable.
- The article as a whole describes Mr Tay s a bad and unfit father
- knew that his son had chicken pox under his care but deliberately did not inform you of the same but on the other hand would be quick to complain should his son be sick when under your care
- is extremely stupid
- had delibrately not informed you of their return from overseas so that you could not come o see your son
- has not taken good care of his son and does not know cause of his rashes and that Mr Tay is an idiot
- delibrately returned home early to cut short your access to your son and that Mr Tay is an idiot
- is stupid and behaves like a mad dog; that Mr Tay is uneducated and does not know how to conduct himself maturel; and that he is brainless
- was opportunistic and sought gratitude from you for a simpl act from him; and that he was behaving like a dog
- had brainwashed his son into not wanting to spend much time with you.
- had brainwashed and/or coerced his son into refusing to see you
- has sub-normal intelligence and is extremely stupid
- is immoral; a homosexual; is guilty of extra marital affairs and caused the breakdown of the marriage
- is physically violent; cruel; and a wife beater who has caused his wife injuries
- is a scrooge; is unable to pay his debts; a liar; and takes financial advantage of his spouse
- mistreats his son; is oppressive towards him; is guilty of immoral conduct in the presence of his son; is a bad father; and delibrately and maliciously deprives his son of access to his mother
- is conniving, deceitful and a morally reprehensible person
- is the devi and has diabolical character
- is dishonest; has brainwashed his son and is therefore oppressive towards his son; and is unfit as a father to raise his son
- is dishonest and sexually and morally reprehensible; has brainwashed his son and is therefore oppressive towards his son; and is unfit as a father to raise his son

At all material imes, your said blog was open to general access by any user of the World Wide Web and at any given time, the WWW has millions of users who have free and open access to the words and images complained of. This constitutes a very serious libel and has caused our client serious embarrassment and distress and has seriously damaged his reputation

Our client therefore requires you:
(1) to publish prominently in your blog a full and complete withdrawal and apology, in terms to be approved by us on our client's behalf;
(2) to remove all the aforesaid offending words, passages and images from your said blog;
(3) to give us your written assurance and undertaking that you will not publish these or any similar articles concerning our client;
(4) to pay to our client a reasonable sum as damages for the injury to his reputation and the embarrassment and distress caused to him and
(5) to indemnify our client in respect of the costs which he will have incurred in this matter

Wow.... he really is a fanatic reader of my blog. I am so honoured. He must be so free to really read and decipher all the meanings.... which i didn't even think of. I just wrote what i felt at that point of time, venting my frustrations to you, baby...... woah.... wow...

But this shows alot... especially point number 4 and 5 ..... and in our divorce petition he also asked me to pay maintenance and pay for his lawyer fees.. ha ha...

Shows alot about his character and what he claimed that i defame him for....

LionHeart roars at Monday, June 19, 2006 3 comments

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Thoughts

There is no child who cannot be taught well. There are only parents who do not know how to teach.

Sometimes, I feel sad on the upbringing of my child, but yet, I feel reassured that I am not at fault for I am not the one who is developing him to the way he is as he is being conditioned all the way by an uneducated ignorant parent who thinks that with his O'level cert, he has the right to talk about moral values and what we, teachers should teach his child. I can only hope to recondition him when he chooses to come back to me for his own good.

3 hunters:

Anonymous shoots...: bloody hell... after one day of hard work, come back read abt such loser stuff, mk my blood boil even more, no wonder my boss n all her successful female frens all decided men are full of shit after they divorce, they become nonsensical n childish n loser... bargain here n there, malign n twist every word, just to squeeze some money outta u... are they poor no! they are jus simply childish n loser.... just wan the money n revenge to mend their little tweeny ego that had been hurt... lol... no balls..!!! or tiny dick... blooody hell.... get a life for yrself... deal w yr own problems, stop hassling her,... learn to let go n give her the happiness that u farking hell OWE her!!!... give her, her life, her love and her son back... continue be a beast, next life he will definitely be one hell of an ugly beast!; Monday, June 19, 2006 8:58:00 PM
Anonymous shoots...: 15 hunters:

free soul shoots...
somebody pls get rid of this guy! is he too free or what!? if he is!! go & make more money so he don't have to depend on his ex wife! PUSSY!!

7:21 AM

Wei shoots...
bloody hell... after one day of hard work, come back read abt such loser stuff, mk my blood boil even more, no wonder my boss n all her successful female frens all decided men are full of shit after they divorce, they become nonsensical n childish n loser... bargain here n there, malign n twist every word, just to squeeze some money outta u... are they poor no! they are jus simply childish n loser.... just wan the money n revenge to mend their little tweeny ego that had been hurt... lol... no balls..!!! or tiny dick... blooody hell.... get a life for yrself... deal w yr own problems, stop hassling her,... learn to let go n give her the happiness that u farking hell OWE her!!!... give her, her life, her love and her son back... continue be a beast, next life he will definitely be one hell of an ugly beast!

7:35 AM

Anonymous shoots...
Muahahaah. Hiz lawyer describes him perfectly. ur words can't even hit e nail but hez did

9:42 AM

Anonymous shoots...
To defame, To harm or destroy the good name or reputation of him, To disgrace, To speak evil of maliciously. Why he should start the suing actions when all those malicious words are the perfect words which match his so true character and personality.
Becuse there're no other perfect words which can be able to be used to praise his evil,ungentlemanly, idiot, loser,immature characters.
He should be shamefull of himself! he deserves to kill himself...or better still GO AND DIE looser!

9:26 PM

Chagesan shoots...
Haiz...This is apparently not the first such cases i've heard....losers man ... they called themselves man but they just can't leave without woman .After separation,kept on asking for money,beat up the wife and all...Be able to stand on ur own and stop harassing these poor souls who just dun wanna fight anymore that's why u have a divorce in the first place...stupid...First priority to ur son,ur flesh and blood...let him have the freedom to choose and not influence him.Let him grow up normally and happily without all these man...It is no longer just about ur wants,hate and hurts but think about ur son,ur future...ur baby...Do not be selish and childish because u cant anymore...GROW UP!!!

9:26 PM

Corinne shoots...
i do not know much abt law but then i think having a blog means allowing urself to state ur comments in public.

as for those who got fined cos of what they hve wrote abt other religions then of cos it is wrong. but then in this case, i feel tat u are writing to let ur son know abt ur tots. u are already denied of the access to ur son, u are just having an online diary to let ur little one know abt ur tots, is it wrong?

is it wrong to talk to your own child? is it wrong to discuss ur thoughts to your child? NO!! You are also the parent of the child.

But then no matter wat, when a marriage fails, the ultimate victim is the child. Please, the father of the poor child, stop all this nonsense and let the poor child grow up properly. Yes, things turn ugly when the marriage fails but then please, dun deny the child of his parents.

9:47 PM

Humble opinion of a 4 leaf clover shoots...
I duno if the disclaimer which XP placed on this page serves any purpose at all. Ppl shld read at their own discretion la. If he thinks he's not an idiot but the article says so, and he feels hurt, obviously he believed each and every word of the article. Come on man, if a person is confident of himself, he wldn't be so affected by what is being written on a humble blogsite. Get a life! Move on!

In addition, every words and acts that the father does now, is gonna affect the mindset of the little boy. If he had a bad childhood, then don't let the vicious cycle repeat on the son. If he had a great life, then don't deprive the son of a great life either. If he is emotionally not balanced... get a phychologist... not a lawyer.

8:47 AM

Aaron shoots...
Wah, I read already, I cannot believe that his lawyer is also such a looser. Same as him, I guess birds of a feather flock together, OHHH, sorry, CORRECTION please, LOOSERS OF A FEATHER FARK TOGETHER!!!

You do not have to care so much of what they say. Just ignore them. Dont need to waste your time sueing them back etc, cos no point lah, U are not like them, so childish. I think I am in a good position to comment cos I seen what type of person he is, NOT based on what you said, BUT based on what my eyes saw at 23 Fulton Ave.

Anyone free, we go there and throw some shit bomb at his house??? Cos he dunno he behaves like shit. Not suitable to be a dad at all.

I really pity Raphael, got such a bad example, haizz.

I remember, even the police who came cannot tahan him.

So please dont care about someone who's OWN lawyer who is so good to describe him as someone who has sub-normal intelligence and is extremely stupid... I really like this, EXACTLY describes him totally. Do u have her contact? Maybe u can post it here, if someone needs her services, can use her also. She is VERY good. Thats the best sentence that can describe him.

I really like her letter, Let me comment on it...

-has coached and brainwashed his son and made his son call his mother to say hurtful words to her; that Mr Tay is devilish; and that Mr Tay has sub-normal intelligence by referring to him as an "idiot".

I MYSELF heared Raphael say he does not like to go home to his dad's place. REMEMBER when Raphael cried when I drove him back to 23 Fulton Ave??? I feel so sad when U forced Raphael to go back to his dad.

- is causing his son to be sarcastic to you[his mother] and to accuse you of depriving him of food; that Mr Tay is childish, has a flawed character and is despicable.

Well, he is childish, has a flawed character and is despicable... VERY TRUE, wrong meh????

- The article as a whole describes Mr Tay s a bad and unfit father

Since when is he FIT???

- knew that his son had chicken pox under his care but deliberately did not inform you of the same but on the other hand would be quick to complain should his son be sick when under your care

What an Unfit dad...

- is extremely stupid

Ohhh, not only stupid, but Subnormal and childish and stingy.

- had delibrately not informed you of their return from overseas so that you could not come o see your son

That was true. He never liked u to visit Raphael.

- has not taken good care of his son and does not know cause of his rashes and that Mr Tay is an idiot

U think he bothers if his son has Rashes???

- delibrately returned home early to cut short your access to your son and that Mr Tay is an idiot

- is stupid and behaves like a mad dog; that Mr Tay is uneducated and does not know how to conduct himself maturel; and that he is brainless

Wasnt this similar to what the policeman said???

- was opportunistic and sought gratitude from you for a simpl act from him; and that he was behaving like a dog

He always behaves like a DOG.

- had brainwashed his son into not wanting to spend much time with you.

- had brainwashed and/or coerced his son into refusing to see you

- has sub-normal intelligence and is extremely stupid

THIS IS A GOOD ONE

- is immoral; a homosexual; is guilty of extra marital affairs and caused the breakdown of the marriage

Go out with gals, Wrong ah???, Go out with guys, he will say that u had sex with them mann!!! If he has no bullets, please ask him to stay at home and shut up, dont go outside and be a fool.

- is physically violent; cruel; and a wife beater who has caused his wife injuries

Well, I saw the hurt he caused in u.

- is a scrooge; is unable to pay his debts; a liar; and takes financial advantage of his spouse

he where got $$ to pay, of course u pay lah, his $$ all spent on his GF liaoz

- mistreats his son; is oppressive towards him; is guilty of immoral conduct in the presence of his son; is a bad father; and delibrately and maliciously deprives his son of access to his mother

Well, what the suprise, he always denies access to the mother. Y not u put up the police reports to show the world?

- is conniving, deceitful and a morally reprehensible person

- is the devil and has diabolical character

Isnt Jerome the Devil?

- is dishonest; has brainwashed his son and is therefore oppressive towards his son; and is unfit as a father to raise his son

He is never fit to be a father.

- is dishonest and sexually and morally reprehensible; has brainwashed his son and is therefore oppressive towards his son; and is unfit as a father to raise his son

He is NEVER fit to be a dad to raise Raphael. So sad...

11:31 AM

Anonymous shoots...
Dear Jerome

If u are a looser, please admit yourself, Dont use your Dickhead to hit your own forehead, cos, what your lawyer wrote is so true.

Please take your hands out of your pants, Dont Squeeze your balls too tightly, they hurt.

If your dick is too short, please do not go round showing it to everyone and decieve yourself thats its super huge. People will only laugh at u... Hope u are not too sub-normal to understand

11:41 AM

Anonymous shoots...
Dear Jerome the 'NOT-a-man',
PLEASE PLEASE grow up and get a life.

6:23 PM

Anonymous shoots...
KAOZ ...
Dear 'the not-a-man' & that lawyer of his,
Please kindly read disclaimer before taking actions.

5:55 AM

Anonymous shoots...
To the person who posted

KAOZ ...
Dear 'the not-a-man' & that lawyer of his,
Please kindly read disclaimer before taking actions.

Please not, the laywer may have cut corners and not read it properly, cos perhaps Jerome did not pay them well enuff...

Please lah, u must know, then chinese have a saying, "yi fen chien, yi fen huo" Every cent counts, Jerome must have looked for a cheap skate lawyer, which gave them cheap skate results...

9:22 AM

Anonymous shoots...
Dear Joey

I just came across your blog by chance.

I am friend of Jerome. I really pity you.

I dont know of what happened between both of you. I really cannot comment and I am not in the position to comment.

But what I really cannot stand is I know that he had a GF when he was still with you. And even went to bed with her.

You are so smart to divorce him. please be happy and I hope u will win this case.

YOU MADE THE RIGHT MOVE. I SUPPORT YOU

All the Best

9:42 AM

MachoM shoots...
with what u r going thru now, just remember that there is a sweet joy which comes through sorrow. just be patient

1:01 AM

Anonymous shoots...
A very venomous and shameless man who knows how to make full use of anything and everything to blackmail and extort money from you, distort the truth and tortuously twisted all the lies, he is not fit to own a dick, neither is he fit to call himself a man, his lawyer is as dimwit as him and i wonder how the hell she got her licence as a lawyer, shame on her, smear the professionalism of a lawyer,she is a total disgrace to all lawyers...even a call-girl leads a more speckless and taintless life than hers..both of them stoop hell low to the fact that they are heavenly matched for each other, cannot disregard this,both are born without basic brains and are equally imbecilic. Does he even have a reputation in the first place to tarnish or exploit?I do know that he has got a filthy, smelly and tainted reputation to speak for himself. Does he even have the money to sue here and there?Or he simply fucked his lawyer's colossal pussy to pay his way out?In case she loses her job, she may want to work as his sex toy?

1:14 AM; Friday, June 30, 2006 3:59:00 PM
LionHeart shoots...: Dear Readers,

Please try to refrain from shooting everything in sight. Thank you for all your support.

His lawyer is doing a good job. She is a good lawyer cos she does whatever he tells her to. So she is good.

There are alot of different lawyers around with different set of views in life.

In some hongkong movies, there are mafias with good lawyers who get them off the hook although they are guilty of charges because of the money. It is not up to them to judge their client. It is their job, their objectives to get what the client wants for the finale.

So to the mafias.. they are good lawyers.... to the society and the victims, they are the opposite.

So it all depends on which viewpoint you are standing in.

Cheers.

1:07 AM; Friday, June 30, 2006 4:10:00 PM

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Anonymous shoots...: Will Raphael be able to catch the show too? Will there be anyone to explain the moral value(s) behind it for him? Will he be blessed enough to watch it? ... .. it really hurts just to think about it ...; Monday, June 12, 2006 5:26:00 PM

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