Dear Raphael,

I was so frustrated today with what i heard from my lawyer. All because of your daddy. He wants me to drop my PPO and he will dropped his provided i stop going to 32 Fulton ave. How can i not do that... when you ... my baby is staying there. Does it mean that i am not allowed to be near you at all? And he said he only allow me to go and visit you on friday 7pm to 8pm? What is that.... you won't even come out to acknowledge me at all... he has already said so many bad things..and brain washed you already. What is the point in me going there to see his gf, your ah ma... dancing and laughing in the house.... with him... when you won't even come out at all? Punishing me? Cos he knows that you are the only one that can gets on my nerves..... that can get me on my knees and beg... for you.. to be with me... you are the ace card he is holding over me.... baby....

Please look through the letter baby... they are trying to cut off all ties between you and grandma and gong gong. Asking me to withdraw my protection order and to ask me to go ALONE to see you. Doesn't that put me in a more dangerous and vulnerable position as you can see what your beloved ah ma did to me last time.... and how your daddy threatened to hit us and lots of vulgarities thrown at us. One hour just to see you.. i would rather go to your school and peek at you for the 4 hours when you are in school. People usually give one day.. i am only given 1 hour?
And for the house to be sold in open market? Come on, me and your daddy cannot even agree on anything... what makes him think that it will go smoothly. Stupidity. Might as well give it back to the government and be done with it. No maintenance for me??? Yr daddy is trying to avoid his responsibility towards me.... so 'manly'. No wonder there are so many lesbians in the world... with this kind of man around. I need to pay your daddy 1.5k??? Since he has so much money to put at his law firm.. why doesn't he pay himself.... through all these actions of his... you can actually see what kind of a man he is... despicable, loser, idiotic, lowly educated .... sigh... never ending adjectives to describe him... all negative remarks.

It takes only 10 mins to say the marriage vows... but more than 4 years to get rid of an idiot.

His Lawyer's Letter:

1. Your client to withdraw her Answer and cross petition and our client to withdraw his repy and answer to cross petition

2. The divorce to proceed uncontested based on our client's petition with admendments to the particulars. Your client to propose the admendments to the particulars.Your client to pay our client costs of 1.5k.

3. custody care and control of the child to be given to our client with access to your client on saturdays from 11am to 4pm. Your client to pick up and drop off the child at our client's home at 32 Fulton Ave S 578995

4. If your client wanst assisted access to Raphael at the Family service centre,your client is to bear the charges by the FSC

5. There shall be no maintenance for your client

6. Our client will not require any contributions from your client for the maintenance of raphael

7. The matrimonial flat to be sold in the open marketand the net proceeds after deduction of all costs and expenses incurred in the sale shall be divided between parties in the ratio of their direct contributions towards the purchase of the flat

8. Our client and his mother are prepared to withdraw their applications for Personal Protection Orders against your client and her parents on condition your client's parents do not come to our client' home at 32 fulton avenue S 578995

In the interim your client can continue to have access to Raphael on Fridays from 7pm to 8pm. However, she is to come alone to our client's home when she comes for access to Raphael.

Your client and her parents are to withdraw their applications for Personal Protection Orders against our client.



Yours lovingly, Mommy