Dear Raphael,

I have a colleague who have a stepmother and a step-siblings. Her father raised her when she was 3 and her mother left. Now she is already 19 years old. I have always ask her... what did your father say abt your mother? She will say that he said alot of bad things about her... and he doesn't like her to talk about her at all. All the years that she has been growing up... all were negative stuffs. And of course, her step mother treats her own children better than her. She herself can feel it too...

But till now, Why doesn't she look for her mother again? She said that her father won't be happy and will be angry with her if she does it. So is it reprisal.... at the age of 19 and she is afraid of making a step in finding the truth and in finding her mother.... i have always believed that it is more difficult for a woman to give up her flesh and blood than a man...

So when will you look for me baby?

Can i wait that long for you to be a man before you look for me and find the truth?

I showed her your blog... and she said that it is so sad... that her eyes watered and she can cry.

Oh baby... i love you much.

Your Mommy forever,
Love you.