Mediation Court
Dear Raphael,
After today court case, i have only one phrase for your daddy... . a pathetic loser
His lies are getting more outrageous. He told the judge that he is not hot tempered... ha ha.. understatement of the year. He already lied to the judge that he did not hit me....during my 3rd week of maternity.. but he carried on his lies even further.. he told the judge that ah gong was not in sg at that point of time, he was in china... ha ha.... i nearly laughed out loud. How stupid can your daddy get? Firstly ah gong was the one who intervene.... and the whole family was at home.. and ah gong has not started business in china at that point of time.... excuse me! You can check from the customs if ah gong is in sg or not... that is stupidity! Telling lies without using his brains... but i guess you cant expect much from him.
And he wants me to pay for your medical bills.... huh?? When he doesn't tell me the dates of your appointments and surgery? And the wicked witch of the west is there all the time.... doing her share of being your 'mommy'? Why don't your daddy asked her to pay.. since she is role playing the stepmother.... and he don't give me the rights of being a mother.... so...why should i do my rights as a mother the way he wants .... let the wicked witch of the west pay and do everything lah? Since he wants to marry her....
And for the drop off point for you.... he wants me to be fully responsible for the charges if i want to see you...ha ha.... when did the mother has to pay to see my child? And he said that it is not his problem that you do not want to see me? Then whose fault? It is the upbringing, my dear... he has done the brain washing... to this kind of extent and he don't want to be responsible... oh i forgot... your daddy has never been responsible for any actions for me. It is natural that he will run away from all these.....
I gave birth to you baby... so am i supposed to charge him for the months of carrying you inside me and the pain of giving birth to you... to balance up the fact that i need to pay if i want to see you? where is the logic? How despicable can he get?
How loser can a guy be? To deny all responsibilities as a man. He should be happy that i didn't state about his incapabilities as a lover... all i stated in my cross petiton are facts of his incapabilities as a man as a husband... i did not mentioned about his prejaculation stuffs or how his nose bleed whenever we had intimacies.... i spare his ego for that....
And he still has the cheek to email my cousins and friends stupid jokes to flood their email... shameless.
Oh and the funny part... he actually printed out the photos of mommy and friends together .... and the judge said that .... there is nothing wrong with the pictures... they are friends..... ha ha. Smack him right in the face.... he is insecure, too sensitive....high imagination... kept on thinking that i was unfaithful... kaoz.... of course... he has the right and reason to do that.... because he knows that he had failed as a man, as a husband, as a lover.... and the wife left him because of all these..... now, he feel angry so the only way that he can get back at me for hurting his ego as he believed that i left him for a woman..... is through you, baby... and by petitioning i am non commited and with affairs....
But of course raphael.... if i really want to compare.... he cannot even match up to a woman in everything. Emotionally, physically as in being there for me.... he can't. He can't even meet the pre requisite.
I love you baby... and i am doing my best to be with you. And he is trying all his ways to get me out of your life..... He wants me totally out...but yet.. he wants me to be responsible for you financially.... as in giving him money to pay his bills in the pretext of maintaince for you..... ha ha.
When you have grown up.... look upon these and laugh at his nonsensical immature demands....
I am sure most the people around me are laughing and shaking their heads....
'Why is there such a loser in the midst of man?'
Lovingly yours, Mommy
LionHeart roars at Friday, May 26, 2006 15 comments 
15 hunters:
you are far too kind in yr words about him
A loser forever a loser, he shld go n tink why u left for a woman becos hes such a desciple thing, note tt i dun even wan to say hes a MAN nor an animal... if most guys are like him, i tink mankind will extinct!!!
Shameless liar! lets jus see when his karma comes, such ppl go around building lies over lies, to tink still gt some1 willing to be with him, she mus be blind or equally bad... or else a sane person would leave, loookin at the way he treats u... wouldnt she hv the brains to tink how he might treat her in future?... wt a brainless witch.
wat ego... hes so low class, hes worse than an ant. Even ants workhard for a living... hahahaa.
i can go on n on n write a whole essay but i better stop, cos no pt wasting ym time scolding such person.
very petty man, a croward indeed.After reading this blog, one can tell how much u luv your son..love him as much as u do now and never let this croward take awya that..one day you will be able to reunite wif your dear son again..be strong..remember, What does not kill u makes u stronger
Personally as a mother myself, I think it is such agony to go through all that.
You see your own child drifting away from you every other day and yet you cannot do anything about it.
This pain that you are going through, is HELL.
It is very sad and this affects his growing up as well.
It is secondary to talk about the other issues now and I really hope that your son will get to see the real you one day.
HE IS JUST A JERK !!!
He is not fit to be called human like anyone of us.
HE IS JUST ANOTHER ANIMAL !!!
Oh ... He is just another piece of trash. As for THAT 'stepma', well ... guess it takes one to know another.
well ... wat more needs 2 be said ? he's just a pathetic loser who has guns but has to borrow rounds from you. hopefully he does the right thing by handing Raphael to you. i didn't know he had THAT kinda problems when hitting the sack. hope he still has the same problems when he wants 2 screw any1. haha
Wat hitting the sack? I think hitting the bucket suits him better.
Now I see that what you're going through is definitely worst than mine. Mine can't even be compared. Sigh....
And after reading, I can actually relate to how my mum felt when she was going through the divorce and fighting of custody.
Be strong and hang on for your son. One day he'll come round.
And I hope everything will turn out well for you. God will bless you through this and let your son come back to you.
I know no matter how much words said won't help but if you ever need a listening ear, I can offer.
Zac (zackie53)
be strong. take comfort in the fact that god sees the good that you do, and the love that you have for Raphael. believe in karma, he'll get his just deserts. and if you really hate him, just let him die to you - let the memories (good and bad ones) vanish, forget his existence.
its not easy to move on but you can definately do it. *BIG HUG*
PS.i think you're really pretty. hahaha. =)
love,
a not so young kid
Hi. May I ask why is your son under the care of your ex-husband? I thought the child of a divorced couple would normally be awarded to the mother? Please correct me if I am wrong. Take care.
Hi, I feels that you are a strong woman and a good mum. I really hope that you will be able to reunite with your son 1 day.
Thank you all for your encouragement.
For some questions, the divorce has not been finalised. So therefore he does not have the custody.
If i had raphael, and i don't give him back to him also can... it can also work that way. And he will be the one fighting for access.
But i don't do lowly kind of stuff that he did by not letting me have my son a few years ago. And now by brain washing raphael to make sure he does not come back to me. That is the actions of a desperate loser.
Hi
Wah, I really cannot believe what he does, he is just a looser and a xiao bai lian la, I TOUGHT the guy is supposed to help pay for most of the expenses?... Maybe he is not a guy at all, did u check carefully?
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