Dear Raphael,

I didn't know that somebody has been a fanatic fan of my blog to you... so here i am.. penning my thoughts to that fanatic fan of mine.... Guess he/she must be so so free to come here so often to read what i write.

Let's have a scenerio:

An ex partner is supposedly to be attached with another. But why is he keep on watching out on his ex partner's profile, diaries and other things that is related to the her. Isn't he supposedly to be very happy and has already got over the fact that he was dumped? Then why is he keep on being bothered about his ex's life. Periodically he keeps on doing that to check on the ex.

Maybe it is out of goodness or ill intentions... it is worth thinking. Maybe he should really ask himself why he bothers. Or is there a part of him that feels insecure or inferior... Guess he needs some serious reflection on this matter. It doesnt makes any sense at all. His ex has already moved on and is happy and don't bother about the ongoings of other people.

But sometimes it seems that he is so interested in what the ex's wrote in the blog and find fault and ways to get even ... Such a sad case for him. Maybe he is not happy being hen pecked all the time... or maybe he is not 'satisfied' with his love life.... or maybe he can't handle losing... or maybe he is just trying to get attention..... sigh... his life must be so boring to come and bother other people's lives.

A word of Advice:
Get on with your life and go ahead and be happy. No need to come and look at your ex blog anymore. Move on. No matter how much you wallow in self pity that you lost your partner due to your pathetic loser ways, she won't come back anymore ever again cos you will always be a loser in her eyes, no matter how much you tried not to be.

Baby Raphael, do you find him pathetic?
So sad... he must be feeling so lousy and depressed all the time to really spend time to read up all the things about his ex and scheme.. plan.. and then put his plan into actions. Tedious work... childish.. immature too.
We should pity him.. We should feel so sorry for him.

Let's put our hands together to pray that he will get his peace... even though he is a christian.
He needs alot of prayers to get him to heaven.

Lovingly yours, Mommy