April 26, 2006

Dear Raphael,

Today, i received the lawyer's letter of what your daddy denied. It was so outrageous that i was laughing. Let me provide you with the details. Your dad can really tell lies with his eyes wide open and without consciences.... The petitioner refers to your daddy and the respondent refers to your biological Mommy

Lawyer letter:

She would bring the camera to take photographs of the Petitioner, his other, Raphael and his home.Some of the photographs would then be posted on her blog with varous comments, some of which are insulting and embarrassing.

Raphael, please look at the posting again. Various coments are made by the readers and i have already put some notes in my disclaimer. This blog is free for comments, advices for my fight for you.

On 24 Feb 06. Again Raphael refused to go with them and all 3 started to turn on the Petitioner and his other, hurling insulting and embarrassing remarks at him in full public view. On that occasion, the Respondent and her parents provoke the Petitioner into uttering words which are not usually in his vocabulary. Raphael was in the house while the Petitioner alone had gone to meet the Respondent and her parents at the gate to reason with them that they should not behave so unruly at his parents' home for all the neighbours to see but they ignore his pleas.

Raphael, what is embarrassing on 24 ? Calling your name and asking you to come out and see us for a while? And you were not in the house when your daddy came over and showed his hostility? I have pictures to show that you were beside. Luckily i took pictures. Otherwise you would not know what kind of lies he can come up with. Full public view... of course we are in the public as he didn't invite us in... or show any sign that he acknowledge us being there. OF course we need to raise our voices... but still no sign of acknowledging our presence. 'Words which are not usuallly in his vocab' .. i think, baby, you need to verify it yourself as you are living with him if not, you can still ask the most impartial person again. And by saying that we igored his pleas.... just look at the photos baby... pleas??? Gong gong was all the way telling him that what he is doing to you is wrong.... and it is painful for all of us... and daddy said that he don't find it painful... and of course me and grandma told gong gong that it is no point reasoning with him, we just have to see him in court. And that is when he hurled profanities at us and threatened to hammer us. The mention of seeing him in court can provoked him till this way??? Afraid? i guess so. Otherwise he would not use all kind of methods on you to make sure that you deny us all the way.

The petitioner has never been violent and unreasonable with the Respondent during the marrage. In fact,it was the Respondent who had in 2001 and 2003 hit the Petitioner when the Petitioner tried to check the Respondent's behaviour.

What a joke! No conscience! I am laughing so hard, Raphael. Maybe when you grow up, you can ask exactly what happen on that day... and ask the most impartial person in the house regarding the incident in 2001 And that does not refer to the people around you at this point of time and for the year 2003, you can ask Dray, our cell group friend who was living with us at that point of time that incident happened or gong gong and grandma as i called them in the middle of the night telling them what happen and gong gong came all the way from jurong to seng kang to check if i am alright and make sure that daddy promised not to hit me again.

The petioner and the Respondent separated in early 2004. The Petiioner met Joreen in mid 2004. It is not true that Joren is the Petitioner long-time gf. Joreen does not stay at 32 Fulton Ave S578995. The Petitioner has never told Raphael to address Joreen as 'mommy'

This is where you know best if you did call her..... mommy. And whether she stayed at your place for a period of time. I just hope that you will remember.

When the Petitioner and Respondent first separated in 2004, the Respondent still showed interest in their son and would visit him although not regularly.

Seeing the son once a week is not regular? Then may i pray what is regular? With regards to your timing given to me.

The petitioner wants the respondent to have access to their son. However, since Sept 5 when the Responden neglected Raphael during her access by not providing him any food for at least 12 hours, the child refuses to go with the respondent.

Baby, you can go back and read all the postings on sept. You have always been with mommy, grandma and gong gong. The day that your daddy had specifically stated in his previous letter, you did not even stay over with mommy. Now, he made it into a general sentence.. since sept 5. What a joke! Trying to cover up his blander and wrong accusations.

Neither the Petitioner nor his mother could prevent the Respondent and her parents from coming to try and get access to Raphael.

That is why they are filing the PPO against us, mommy, grandma and gong gong just to prevent us from coming and try to get access to you.

The Petitioner had informed the Respondent that as long as Raphael wanted to go with the Respondent, the gate would be unlocked for him. Since the Respondent made an issue of it, whenever the Respondent is at 32 Fulton Ave, the gate is not locked but the Respondent does not go in anyway. The Petitioner does not "splash water outside the house" to make the Respondent feel uncomfortable.

I have pictures to show that the gate is locked. Luckily i took pictures of the lock everytime. And i also do have the photos of the 'splash water outside the house' incident. Please look at previous posting baby.... and see what kind of daddy and ah ma you have.

Baby, All i want from you is your understanding of my situation and see that i am not what daddy has poison you with, with his lies, words, actions.... Due to all these that he had done and is still doing, you can't blame mommy for leaving daddy. I can't handle living with these kind of people. It is mentally tiring, emotional taxing and it is taking its toll on me. I just want to love you the way i know how to.... we, grandma, gong gong and mommy only want the best for you and for you to be brought up correctly and happily.

Please forgive me for anything that i am doing now which is not acceptable to your point of view. As i am still learning.... through painful experience which your daddy is trying to inflict on me.

You are the only needle that can make my heart bleed endlessly for you.
I love you,
Mommy

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