Dear Raphael

A psychiatrist once said:

Life is complex already
why make things more complicated that it is already that....

i dont like to tell people what to do
but i would explore with people what other ways that can also make them comfortable
and getting a similar results
they want
let them make their on decision
because change have to come from inside
they have to convince themselves that they are responsible for their decision


Good news is that he will be coming back in Sept. He worked at FSC in Sg for his internship and he has seen lots of cases like me and your daddy. He gave me advises now and then. And it helps me to be more open and i really feel much better whenever i talked to him. I will bring you to see him once things are settled. Cos i know that it will do you good to chat with him and let everything out.. with no more burdens on you....

Love, Mommy