Tendency of violence
Raising voice whenever we had disagreements, however big or small
Slapping me fully on my face such that I was thrown back, even though at that time I was in my 3rd week of maternity in the in-laws鈥?home.
Grabbed me by my hair and flung me against the clothes cabinet and subsequently pushed me across the room with so much force I ended up with bruises in the matrimonial home

Financially incapable and irresponsible which is expected of a husband
Expected me to pay for a share of the household electricity bills of the in-laws鈥?home even though I was just drawing an allowance while studying and he was drawing a stable income of over $2000, to which I complied
Always divided all child-incurred expenses equally even though I was just drawing an allowance while studying and he was drawing a stable income of over $2000, to which I complied.

Such child-incurred expenses included:
Diapers
Milk powder
Baby clothes
Baby accessories
Baby toys
Expected me to pay for the fuel of the car鈥檚 consumption at times, even though he was the main user of the vehicle even though I was just drawing an allowance while studying and he was drawing a stable income of over $2000, to which I complied
Expected me to assist him in paying for his bills even though I did not expect the same from him even though I was just drawing an allowance while studying and he was drawing a stable income of over $2000, to which I complied.

Such bills included:
Car related loan
Handphone bills

Constantly defaulting on his share of the payment in household electricity bills of the matrimonial home such that electricity was cut off. I had to pay off his share to reinstate the electricity to which he did not return
Lied to me that he had difficulties paying for his share of the household electricity bills of the matrimonial home as he had to pay for his share of household maintenance of the in-laws鈥?home. Upon checking with my mother-in-law, it was verified that he had been not paying for his share of household maintenance of the in-laws鈥?home by claiming he had to pay for his share of the household electricity bills of the matrimonial home
Failure to return monies borrowed from me during marriage and separation on time, and even then after much chasing
Obstructing me from performing my role as a mother to our son
Instructed our son to acknowledge his present intimate girlfriend as our son鈥檚 鈥渕other鈥? confusing the mind of a 5-year old child who had been acknowledging only one women as his 鈥渕other鈥?during his whole existence
Regularly influencing our son not to meet up with me during the allocated time on weekends by promising him treats (e.g. cycling and kite-flying trips) fully aware that it was my turn with our son and that he would reject me to go out with him
Obviously threatening our son to avoid showing affections for me as our son would whisper words of endearment (e.g. 鈥淚 love you mommy鈥? whenever he was out of earshot
Obviously threatening our son subsequently to avoid contact with me as our son immediately avoided my phone calls and visits to him after one enjoyable excursion with him to my parents鈥?house and nearby playground in October
Behaving intimately with his present intimate girlfriend by hugging, kissing and allowing her to sit on his lap in full view of our son and myself inclusive, confusing the mind of a 5-year old child who will be wondering about my relationship with him, even though I always refrain from such behaviour and never disregarding his status as the father of the child
Prevented me from seeing and bringing my son out in 2002 even though it was my allocated time. I had to call in the police.
Prevented me from getting near to my son while it is the time allocated for me on paper.