I was yelling in the morning at my ex. The OCBC bank called to say that the renovation loan for two months has not been paid and we are liable to be sued. I was so angry. I did my share in putting in $340 per month and he should have done his share but he didn't. I told the bank that you can't sued me cos it is not my fault. The bank statements showed that i have been always punctual in my payment. It is his fault that it didn't have enough so don't sued me. Then the guy said that the bank will actually sued both and not one. Kaoz.... When i called him, he just said that he knows what i am calling for and please don't start yelling at him.... guess some things never changed. He can predict my actions ... towards him when things are not done and it implicate me. Sigh... a man has to be responsible towards his wife, and ease her of their financial burdens when come to joint accounts and has to spare a thought for the wife. But it seems that he has always been pulling me into his debts and getting me broke ever since i was married to him. Even when we are separated, i still can't get out of the habit feeling disappointed in him and get so affected by his financial status and his priorities in life. I must learn to relax and tell myself not to care anymore ... cos i am out of his life and i chose it this way and am happier this way. Sigh......